Dating should be
deliberate,
not addictive.

Troth is a three-layer matching system for adults who are done performing and ready to be known. Psychometric compatibility. Behavioral trust. Zero casino mechanics.

Begin your profile
Compatibility Overview
Life structure
Conflict style
Repair capacity
Attachment fit
Values alignment
Category-level summaries only. Raw scores are never shared.

Five design principles

Every feature, every screen, every algorithm decision passes through these filters.

01

Make truth easier

Validated assessments and anti-faking logic replace the performance of curated profiles.

02

Make repair normal

Guided reflection, post-date check-ins, and repair style modules built into the experience.

03

Make dignity default

No popularity contests. No boosts. No exposing someone's vulnerabilities to strangers.

04

Make ownership unavoidable

Accountability prompts and behavioral consistency tracking reward honesty over impression management.

05

Make manipulation unnecessary

When the system is fair and transparent, gaming it becomes pointless.

Three layers of matching

Compatibility isn't one score. It's a system of hard boundaries, weighted signals, and earned trust.

Layer 1

Hard Blockers

Non-negotiables declared by you or enforced by policy. These are absolute.

  • Relationship structure mismatch
  • Children preferences
  • Geographic non-negotiables
  • Faith or lifestyle dealbreakers
  • Safety and trust violations
Layer 2

Weighted Compatibility

Psychometric signals weighted by evidence strength. No single score decides your match.

  • Attachment dimensions
  • Conflict and repair style
  • Emotional regulation
  • Accountability patterns
  • Communication preferences
Layer 3

Behavioral Trust

In-app behavior refines match quality over time. Actions speak louder than answers.

  • Messaging respect signals
  • Retest stability
  • No-show and follow-through rate
  • Consistency with stated values
  • Scam and coercion detection

What Troth optimizes for

  • Verification and assessment completion
  • First-date conversion
  • Post-date perceived honesty and safety
  • 3-month committed dating rate
  • 12-month relationship satisfaction
  • Low fraud and harassment rates

What Troth refuses to optimize

  • Time spent in the app
  • Swipe volume
  • Message count
  • Compulsive return behavior
  • Vanity metrics or popularity scores
  • Keeping people single longer

The best dating app is the one you no longer need.

Troth's success metric is your departure. We build the system that helps serious people find each other, grow together, and leave.

Start your assessment